I’m one who likes to plan things. I used to be very much
that way. I’m less so now. It’s not that I don’t want to plan ahead; it’s
simply that I recognize it to be a somewhat futile effort.
There is an old saying that if you want to make God laugh,
tell him your plans. I think that was first written by someone who feels much
as I do. Lately I have had a number of incidents that reinforce those feelings.
My most well laid plans have been totally shattered by unforeseen
circumstances—mechanical failures, oversights in making necessary
communications, people facing conflicting responsibilities, etc. That can lead
to situations that are very frustrating.
There is another saying to the effect that a person is never
given more stress than he or she can handle. That philosophy gives some hope to
the situation and, fortunately, I believe I’ve come to a point at which I am
not overly disturbed by shattered plans. Actually I don’t really call them
plans any more. They are more like intentions.
If what I intend happens—fine. If it doesn’t—that’s OK, too. There is another
saying/philosophy to the effect that the universe works things out in a manner
that is best for everyone concerned. That particular one offers a lot of hope
though it may not offer the best of experiences. I guess it might be summed up
as “Go with the flow.” There’s a lot of value in that. First of all, things
usually work out satisfactorily despite the shattered plans and in the meantime
not getting agitated over their being shattered makes for a much more tranquil
existence.
So much for that. Now, I’m going to set about making my list
of intentions for this coming week.
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